Dr. Kiran Stallone
Academic, Gender Consultant, Advocate

Academic work

My academic work examines patterns of violence, gender dynamics, and civilian protection mechanisms, with the goal of contributing to peacebuilding and conflict resolution. I delve into the gendered dimensions of political violence and civilian responses to war and conflict. I highlight not only the horrific experiences women face in conflict but also their remarkable acts of agency and strength. I have led research and data collection projects across 10 Colombian departments, engaging with many communities affected by war and conflict. I completed my PhD in Sociology at the University of California, Berkeley, and hold an MSc in Latin American Studies from the University of Oxford. My academic findings have been published in journals like the Journal of Peace Research, Third World Quarterly, Violence Against Women, and Theory & Society.
Articles
Confessions to intimate violence: FARC testimonies to sexual violations in the Colombian conflict
International Feminist Journal of Politics

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June 14, 2024
This article analyzes FARC’s rare confessions of sexual violence, tracing the shift from denial to remorse. It highlights how evolving narratives and leadership dynamics reveal the potential for breaking global silence on sexual violence in conflicts and building a unified norm to condemn such acts across Colombia’s divided society.

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The gendered risks of defending rights in armed conflict: Evidence from Colombia
Peace Research Institute Oslo

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Feb 6, 2024
This article examines the gendered risks for Colombian social leaders under armed groups. Men face higher death rates, but both genders receive threats rooted in stereotypes, as shown by 40 interviews across conflict regions. Findings highlight the need for gender-sensitive analysis and responses to such violence.

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Love in war? The strategic use of intimacy in armed conflict
Third World Quarterly

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Nov 23, 2023
The use of intimacy for strategic aims in war is underexplored. This article examines how Colombian civilian women in conflict zones formed relationships with armed actors to secure protection and influence. Through interviews, it shows that, lacking state security, these women leveraged intimacy to sway armed actors, promoting protection and information-sharing.

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Defiant conformists: gender and resistance against genocide
Theory and Society

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Nov 03, 2023
College-educated women were crucial in resisting genocide by building secure, interregional networks to shelter victims. In the Netherlands during the Holocaust, they used strategic femininity—like coquetry and motherhood—to hide resistance work, showing how gender and status shaped civilian agency in crises.

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Strategic Submission to Rape is not Consent: Sexual Violence in the Colombian Armed Conflict
Violence Against Women

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Nov 24, 2021
Academic studies are just beginning to see the agency of sexual violence victims in war. This article shows how Colombian women raped in conflict (1964-present) often make calculated choices, such as submitting to rape to protect themselves and family. However, these strategies can later hinder their recognition as victims and access to rights.

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Teaching
I have extensive teaching experience across diverse settings, including serving as a Graduate Student Instructor for Introduction to Sociology at UC Berkeley, where I guided undergraduate students through foundational concepts in sociology. My teaching background also includes unique experiences beyond academia, such as working as a yoga instructor for female FARC political prisoners in Colombia, where I facilitated sessions focused on mindfulness and physical well-being as part of a broader reintegration process. Additionally, in my role as a consultant, I lead specialized workshops for both governmental and non-governmental audiences, drawing on my expertise in gender and development to design sessions that enhance understanding and application of gender-sensitive approaches in policy and practice.
PhD Dissertation
Love in War? The Strategic Use of Intimacy in Armed Conflict
My PhD dissertation examined a particular form of “partial” agency: women’s strategic use of intimacy in war and conflict. Intimacy is typically associated with loving consent, and far less often with strategy or manipulation to achieve particular outcomes. By theorizing strategic intimacy as a gendered practice, my dissertation shed light on how patriarchal gender regimes shaped which behaviors were viable and for whom in conflict scenarios. In the absence of the Colombian state or local (and legal) protection forces, I found that women civilians strategically developed relationships with armed actors to achieve both personal and community-level objectives. I argued that they did so using a series of tactics involving “frontstage performances” (Goffman 1956) of emotions and physicality, and showed how these influenced armed actor governance patterns. My in-depth interviews give rare insights into women’s strategic experiences of intimacy during war and conflict by revealing how they “bargain with patriarchy” (Kandiyoti 1988) to achieve specific outcomes.
Books

Brave Women: Fighting for Justice in the 21st Century

By Julia Zulver (Editor), Kiran Stallone (Editor)
What does it mean to fight for women’s rights today? Across the world, women risk their safety to demand justice and equality. This book spans countries from Burundi to Mexico, highlighting diverse struggles, from preventing sexual violence in Colombia to resisting the Taliban in Afghanistan. Written by activists and academics, it captures years of collaboration to show how women’s journeys differ yet share the common goal of empowerment and rights. Aimed at a general audience, it also appeals to students and researchers in feminist studies, sociology, politics, and international relations.
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